Yes, it’s true. A chance encounter with an 80-year-old man at the pool led to a profound change in not just my swimming technique, but also my approach to life’s subtle learning opportunities.
I’m a self-taught swimmer, and this gentleman, who swam effortlessly beside me, noticed something amiss in my technique. After a shared pause at the pool’s edge, he shared a tip: “Your hands should fold and then go under the water, not stretch all the way forward.” Intrigued, I learned he had over 40 years of swimming experience. Imagine, receiving such expert advice for free!

Initially, I struggled with the technique. Despite my efforts and observing others, including athletes in films, success eluded me. It wasn’t until four months later that it finally clicked. Implementing his advice not only eased the strain on my arms but made swimming more enjoyable and efficient. It was a breakthrough moment, both in swimming and in understanding the value of persistence and open-mindedness.
This story is more than about swimming; it’s about recognizing and embracing the disguised opportunities life presents. These moments, often brief and unexpected, can lead to significant growth and improvement. The key is to remain receptive and patient. The advice from my swimming companion, which initially seemed inconsequential, turned out to be one of the most impactful experiences of my year. It reminded me that expertise can come from the most unexpected places, and its value is immeasurable.
So, whenever you encounter someone willing to share their knowledge, listen. Even if it doesn’t make sense immediately, give it time and thought. These are the opportunities that propel us forward, hidden in the guise of everyday interactions.
“Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.”
Benjamin Franklin

