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15 years of wisdom: Do not live on autopilot
In December 2025, I reflected on my 15 years in software development, emphasizing the importance of living intentionally rather than on autopilot. Making intentional choices about projects and personal development has enriched my career. I advocate for conscious decision-making to enhance professional fulfillment and growth, shaping a rewarding work life.
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On Satisfaction and Peace
The post presents the idea that true satisfaction comes from within and doesn’t require changing the world. A satisfied person finds peace in clarity and meaningful actions, while dissatisfaction drives others to seek change. Authentic living, self-awareness, and genuine choices lead to fulfillment, reducing unnecessary stress and promoting peace.
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Execution over Planning
The post emphasizes the importance of execution over perfection in overcoming mental barriers like depression and restlessness. It advocates for embracing imperfection and taking action, whether through exercise or creative pursuits. Learning from failures and focusing on personal practice leads to genuine progress and fulfillment, encouraging individuals to act on their desires without overthinking.
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On Finding Creativity in an Ordinary Life
Work primarily serves the purpose of making a living, but once financial stability is achieved, the focus shifts to seeking happiness and satisfaction. Creativity emerges as the essential element for fulfillment, distinguishing those who create from those who merely copy. Engaging in creative activities, regardless of the medium, enriches life and provides a sense of…
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The Real Reason We Adjust to Pollution and Stress
We seek a good life filled with simplicity and health, but often lose ourselves in daily tasks, neglecting vital needs like clean air and peace. This routine can numb us to worsening conditions, as seen in cities like Delhi. Quality of life matters more than chores; true fulfillment comes from mindful living and choice.
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The Illusion of Purpose
Life isn’t about finding a grand purpose but about living fully and finding satisfaction in daily activities. Many seek fulfillment through work, but when rewards lose meaning, boredom and frustration arise. Instead of chasing purpose, focus on engaging work that brings joy and connection, fostering a rhythm that keeps life vibrant.
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Don’t Teach Kids — Nurture Them
The content emphasizes that children’s natural talents need nurturing rather than traditional teaching. Parents should identify and cultivate their child’s unique abilities through exploration and engagement. By fostering interests and treating children with respect, parents can significantly impact their development, as illustrated by the success of Magnus Carlsen in chess.
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The Year I Let Go of Goals and Found Real Progress
At 37, the author embraces a free-flowing approach to self-improvement rather than setting yearly goals. Through skiing, chess, and tennis, they learn persistence, strategic thinking, and acceptance. The significance of mentorship and open-mindedness in the learning process is emphasized, showing how these experiences transform personal growth and perspective on life.
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The Tree That Taught Me Symmetry
The author reflects on a hike in the Washington mountains, observing the perfect symmetry of leaves produced by a resilient tree over centuries. This experience leads to a realization about life’s inherent asymmetry and the futile pursuit of perfection. Acceptance of one’s imperfections is suggested as a path to finding value and harmony.
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Chess: The Quiet Teacher of Independent Thinking
Chess transcends being a mere sport; it fosters independent thinking and decision-making skills. It teaches children to analyze, plan, and accept responsibility, enhancing their ability to thrive in various areas of life. The core message is that mastery in chess and life is about foresight, patience, and recognizing patterns in decisions.
